Thursday, February 3, 2011

To cheat or not to cheat - and with whom

A new study on cheating, yay! This one focussed on the sex of the person you cheat with (well, not you, neither me, of course).
It seems that 50 percent of men would forgive their girl if she has an affair with another girl. Effect of millions of lesbian pornos? No, simple reason is that men are concerned about paternity, and if the missus cheats with a girl, there's no chance she could get pregnant and one would end up raising the child of another man. Plus, with another girl around, he might end up getting it on with both of them (sweet dreams).
Only 22 percent would continue a relationship if she gets in bed with another man.
Now for girls, on the other hand, security is first concern (if they get pregnant, it's their child anyway), so they want to be sure that the man won't leave. And this probability raises if the man gets down and dirty with another man, so only 21 percent of girls would forgive a gay affair.
If he screws around with another woman, it's 28 percent that would get over that.
Complex matter. Thank God nobody cheats (except for those that are actually catched).

15 comments:

  1. Huh, heard bou that article. For me, cheating=end of relationship ;]

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  2. My GF don't allow me to watch porn. She says it's a cheating. Is this because she seeks for security?

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  3. Not sure I could forgive my wife if she cheated on me. Even with another woman.

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  4. yeah if I was in a explicitly stated monogamous relationship then i don't care if it was with another vagina person, cheating is cheating and that bitch is out on the curb.

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  5. I've never cheated myself, nor will I ever, but I have had people cheat on me, and was one of the "afairee's" I guess (I didn't know about it at the time, but when I found out I ended it).

    But, I've actually had the slight poke at my girlfriend to sleep with other girls, cause I find that super attractive (same with girls wearing long socks...I LOVE long socks [...too much?]).

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  6. Guys only say that because they want to use the line "It's ok, but next time, invite me mmmk?"

    Cheating sucks. I've been on both ends of it, cheater and cheated. Feels bad, man.

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  7. @Susheep mine too, i think it's normal. Never cheated my gf, and never will. (i think)

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  8. @Susheep - Yes, in a way. If you look at another woman in a porno, your girlfriend might think you'd prefer to mate with that pornstar instead of her. Of course she should be able to handle that logically, but ... well, you know how they are ;)

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  9. I'm not sure if I could forgive my girlfriend if she slept with another girl, depends on which girl I guess. I would have trouble believing it though.

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  10. I cheat on my right hand with my left hand/

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  11. For me, the gender doesn't matter. Cheating is cheating. If they're cheating, they most likely don't like you anymore.

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  12. I wouldn't want to get cheated nor cheat on someone... But, you never know...

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  13. meh I would never cheat on a girl, as tempting as it could be at times...

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  14. After having been cheated on twice in a row I can say I'd kick a cheater out.

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  15. Interesting. But I do not and will not forgive cheating, under any circumstance

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